Me and you
Not a fly on the wall. More like a guest who's working.
What it's actually like having me at your wedding — and what happens either side of it.
The honest answer
Somewhere between invisible and involved
“Fly on the wall” makes it sound like I’ll be hiding behind a curtain. I won’t be. I’ll be in the room — talking to your gran, getting out of the way of the caterers, standing somewhere useful about four seconds before something happens.
Most of the day you’ll forget I’m there. When you do notice me, it shouldn’t feel like an interruption.
What to expect on the day
Reading the room, from the moment I arrive
I'll check in with you, introduce myself to the people who matter, and quietly get to work without creating a fuss. I work comfortably alongside other suppliers and adapt quickly if plans change — which they often do — so you never feel like the photography is adding pressure.
If things are calm, I stay in the background. If the energy shifts, I move with it. When you need guidance, I'll offer it gently. When you don't, I'll step back and let the moments happen.
A smile on my face
Whatever's happening, you'll usually find me calm, positive, and fully tuned in to what's unfolding around me.
Suggest, never demand
No awkward posing, no cheesy setups — unless that genuinely is your thing.
Unfazed by weather
Rain, low light, changing conditions — all part of the day. Some of the most memorable images come from the unexpected.
On the day
If things are calm I stay in the background. If the energy shifts, I move with it.
Before the day, and after it
The bits that are easy to get wrong
Most of the worry about a wedding photographer isn’t about photographs. It’s about whether someone replies, and when the pictures actually turn up. So here are both, in writing.
Getting hold of me
Your photographs
Who turns up
When you book me, you get me.
Not an associate. Not whoever happens to be free that weekend. The person you meet is the person who photographs your wedding, and the person who edits it afterwards.
If something ever stopped me getting there, you would hear it from me the moment I knew — and I would find you someone I’d trust with my own wedding.
Kind words from couples
“Che was creative, chilled, and so easy to be around. He captured parts of the day we never would have seen and made the whole process feel relaxed and natural. The photos are simply perfect.”
Harry
“We're both former photographers and were very particular, but Che delivered perfectly. He made us feel completely at ease, blended in effortlessly, and captured stunning moments throughout the day.”
Luca
“Che brought such a warm, calm energy to our wedding and felt like a friend throughout the day. He captured every emotion beautifully, including moments we never want to forget.”
Grace
Frequently asked
How much of the day do you cover?
We're not very comfortable in front of the camera — is that a problem?
How long do couple portraits take?
Do you work with videographers and other suppliers?
If this feels right